The Most Important Question To Ask Before You React
When the hard moment hits β the text that makes your stomach drop, the comment that lands like a jab, the decision you have to make about how to respond β what's running through your head?
For most of us, it's some version of: What do I deserve here? What does he deserve? What will protect me? What will make him finally see?
I've spent nearly twenty years walking with women through the hardest ...
Women come to me to heal their marriages β and I love being a part of that. But if I'm being honest, the first thing God wants to heal is not her marriage. It's her.
I know. Fighting words.
That is the last thing you want to hear when you're staring at so much brokenness in your husband. But we are not here to dictate a timeline for someone else's healing. We're here to get honest about ours.
B...
The Sewage Was Never the Problem
Years ago I walked into our bathroom and found sewage backing up into the toilet. And then into the tub.
If you have ever seen that, you know it is exactly as bad as it sounds.
Here is what we did not do. We did not stand there scooping it out of the tub while everyone kept flushing the toilets like nothing was wrong. That would have been insanity. You do not manage sewage. You stop, you call s...
The Wise Wife Letters
A weekly letter for the wife who is standing alone, fighting the right fight, and refusing to let fear run the house.

